Have you ever struggled with what to say to someone who has had a beloved family member pass away? Or what to say when a cherished pet has moved on? Or wondered how to support that person in the months that follow? I’ve been giving this some thought over the past 9 months when family and friends have come to me asking, “What do you need?”, “How can I support you?”, “How can I be present for you?” Just asking those questions is the first step in continuing a healthy relationship with the person going through those big life changing events. Many people say not to ask questions, to just…